Tuesday, September 18, 2007

be nice :)

tazkirah dah..
jadual dah..
resepi dah..
kali nih aku nak cite teladan la pulak..
(mmg aku ada byk masa tluang kat opis di kale pose² nih..hihihi..)

ok, cite ni aku copy dr email..
tapi malas nak translate..
sbb kalau aku translate kang, lain jadinye..ekekeke..

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Controlling Anger

Once upon a time there was a boy with a very difficult character.
His father gives him a bag full of nails and tells him to drive one nail in the garden fence every time he loses his patience and/or has an argument with someone.

The first day the boy drives 37 nails in the garden fence.
In the following weeks, the boy learns to control himself and the number of nails driven in the fence gets lower every day.
The boy discovers that it is easier to learn to control himself than to hammer nails in the fence.

At last, the day comes when the boy does not drive any nail in the garden fence.
Then he goes to his father and tells him that today he did not need to hammer any nail.
His father then tells the boy to take out one nail from the fence for every day he succeeds in controlling his temper and not loosing his patience.
Many days pass and finally the boy can tell his father that he took out all nails from the fence.

The father brings his son in front of the fence and tells him:
"My son, you behaved well, but look how many holes you left in the fence.."

It will never be the same.
When you have an argument with someone and tell him bad words, you leave him with wounds like these ones.

You can stab a man and then take the knife out, but you will always leave a wound.
It does not matter how many times you say sorry, the wound will stay.
A wound caused by words hurts just as bad as a physical wound.
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So moral of the story:
berbaik²laa sesame insan..
bukan dlm bulan pose nih je ye..bulan² yang lain tu pun same gak..
idup nih tak lame..so cepat² laa perbetulkan ape yang dah senget² tu..
kite tatau what will happen next..
maybe one day, org yang kite dah saketkan ati tu laa yang akan tolong kite balik..
who knows, kan? what goes around, comes around :)
heheh..aku tulis camnih bukan nak pandai² nasihat orang..
ni pun utk peringatan aku gak..
same² kite beringat ok..
Always remember the three "Rs":
  • Respect yourself
  • Respect others
  • Responsible for all your actions.
p/s: takat nih, aku maseh bjaye menghasilkan entry "baik"..hehehe...

2 comments:

helomynameisjaye said...

pehh...entry baek sajee..
aku suke nih.
peringatan yg berguna.


tp mmg mutul la.
though the wound heals, it will still left a mark..or stichesss..

karma ini..

:: iera :: said...

yep dear..
a wound will always be a wound :)